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["Rose-Mockry, Katherine G" <>]

I had only watched small segments of the program and did not view this but in 
principle I think this is a dangerous message.  We want students to use all 
the tools available to them to disengage and leave a potentially dangerous 
situation.  Sometimes a situation calls for verbal and/or physical resistance 
- we need to not discourage students from this option!

Kathy

Kathy Rose-Mockry
Program Director, Emily Taylor Women's Resource Center
University of Kansas
(785) 864-3552

www.etwrc.ku.edu

The Student Involvement and Leadership Center exists because involvement 
enhances learning 




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 On Behalf Of Sean Chavez
Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2007 11:40 AM
To: Linder, Chris; 

Subject: RE: online sexual assault program


I also have a concern about the "Verbal Judo" and the goal of this is to 
"escape" out of a situation without any "form of physical or verbal 
resistance." Being from a resistance based state I don't feel that is the 
best advice to give women. 
Any thoughts? 

Sean Chavez
Program Specialist
Violence Prevention Programs
University of Idaho 

208-885-2095
 

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 On Behalf Of Linder,Chris
Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2007 9:30 AM
To: Juliette Grimmett; Katherine G Rose-Mockry; 
;
 Candace Daniels
Subject: RE: online sexual assault program

Hi All,

I have some significant concerns around the material included in this online 
sexual assault program. While I recognize that it clearly works for some 
campuses with limited staff and resources, I think it is important to 
recognize that this program is at best heterosexist and at worst homophobic. 
The use of male on male rape to evoke empathy in college men has been 
controversial for some time, and this program uses that perspective. I think 
the homophobic message inherent in this type of "empathy" causes far more 
damage than good. In addition, the video perpetuates many essentializing 
messages around gender that further alienates transgender and gender-queer 
students. We have done a disservice to the GLB and Transgender community for 
far too long and I think that the use of heterosexist material continues 
this. I'm not sure how to counter this when doing these kinds of generic 
programs that might be better than not doing anything, but I think it needs 
to at least be acknowledg  ed.

In addition to the lack of messages around GLB and T issues, it also does not 
address other marginalized populations - issues around sexual assault are 
different in communities of color and the disabled community than they are in 
the dominant culture, and this program does not address these factors either.

It is also expensive. If someone would give our office $6 for every incoming 
student to our campus, we could do a lot to reach incoming students in 
various ways - potentially multiple programs in 1st year classes.

Just some more food for thought...

Chris




Chris Linder
Director, Women's Programs & Studies
112  Student Services
Fort Collins, CO 80523-8200
Phone: (970) 491-6384
Fax: (970) 491-4922

wps.colostate.edu

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 On Behalf Of Juliette Grimmett
Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2007 9:48 AM
To: Katherine G Rose-Mockry; 
;
 Candace Daniels
Subject: RE: online sexual assault program

Hi Kathy and everyone else-

your concerns are all very valid.  Ultimately, just like with any program, 
there is no perfect way to do this.  My thoughts are that this program is a 
great way to get something out to all of your students as long as you ALSO 
continue to do programming all over campus to show that there is a person 
behind this AND that they know there is someone they can speak with.  By 
itself with no follow-up, not a great idea.

I definitely heard that some of our students multi-tasked during the program 
and that can't be helped.  Even in a classroom, who knows which students are 
doing something else...what can be an advantage to this program is that for 
students that are very uncomfortable in groups or for those that may be 
triggered, this type of module allows students to do it on their own time, in 
phases, and in a place that they feel safe.


I looked at this program as being able to do SOMETHING that I can't.  I alone 
cannot go and provide a baseline program for all 5000+ first-year students.  
Some of them I will be able to reach in a classroom, RA training, housing 
workshop, etc., but it is not guaranteed.  This at least ensures the 
opportunity of reaching them all, and provides some baseline if I get to meet 
with them in person.  From the data we have been collecting, most students 
incoming students (upwards of 90%) have not received any SV programming 
before coming to campus, so this is better than nothing.

Also, while modules with acting can have a cheese factor, they are a million 
times better than the SexualAssault EDU program and have some diversity in 
their members.  I haven't gone through all of our evaluations/data, but 
overall it seems that at least our students did not find it too cheesy, but 
it is definitely a great idea to ask your students what they think.

Also, the price is what they call "the price of a movie ticket per person."  
So, somewhere around $7/8 per student is my guess.  You may be able to work 
out a figure that works for both of you if you decide to go ahead with the 
program.

All this said, it is a huge cost and something that I believe the 
University/College itself should pay for - not the Women's Centers and IPV 
centers.  Many are paying for the Alcohol EDU program, we need to get them on 
board with this as well.

juliette

"It's so liberating and important for men to understand that they can 
actually be friendly to women instead of playing some gender-specific role, 
and that women are in most ways the same as they are. I think that lots of 
women already know that, but not so many guys do."  -my dad 8/3/07

Juliette Grimmett, MPH
Rape Prevention Education Coordinator
NC State University
Women's Center
3120 Talley Student Center
Campus BOX 7306
Raleigh, NC 27695-7306
Office: (919) 513-3232
24 Hour Sexual Violence Hotline: (919)618-RAPE (7273)
Fax: (919) 515-1066
email: 

website: http://www.ncsu.edu/womens_center



>>> "Rose-Mockry, Katherine G" 
>>> <>
>>>  12/11/2007 11:26 AM
>>>
Hi Candace and group members,

I received this information as well and visited the site to view the program. 
 From my perspective, it is a good idea but has some inherent
problems:

1.  Students can multi-task (or simply not attend to it) while watching. The 
video producers have included a pre and post test to make it less likely 
students will stop watching it altogether, but I think smart students know 
how to answer these with limited involvement.

2.  It is easier to not connect emotionally when watching a video than in a 
presentation.  I've always felt that one of our most important tasks is 
connecting with students on an emotional level, which is where the real 
change comes about.

3.  The student actors come off as too "scripted" and the dialogue seems a 
bit insincere for me - students may not see it the way I do though.

I am going to get some of our students to take a look at it and give me 
feedback - would like to know what those of you who have used it think about 
it.  I also notice it's hard to get specific info about the cost of this 
program.

Kathy

Kathy Rose-Mockry
Program Director, Emily Taylor Women's Resource Center University of Kansas
(785) 864-3552

www.etwrc.ku.edu

The Student Involvement and Leadership Center exists because involvement 
enhances learning




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 On Behalf Of Daniels, Candace
Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2007 10:00 AM
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Subject: online sexual assault program


Hello all -



I just received a brochure in the mail about an online sexual assault 
prevention program called nformd.net (http://nformd.net ;<http://nformd.net/> 
). I have never heard of it before today, and wanted to know if anyone has 
any experience with it. If you have used it, how was it received on your 
campus? Do the students actually visit the site?



Thanks!!





Candace Daniels

Sexual Assault Response and Prevention Coordinator

St. Mary's College of Maryland

TEL: 240.895.4289





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