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RE: Mutual No Contact Directives?


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I also think it is really important to recognize what we’ve learned in the criminal justice system, which is how abusers manipulate the system.  It is not unusual for abusers to set up the victim so that she will get a violation of the no-contact order.  It just becomes one more tool in the pattern of the behaviors abusers use.  

 

Lee Etta LaDue

Gender Violence Prevention Coordinator

Women's Center

720 4th Ave. S.

St. Cloud, MN 56301

320-308-3995

 

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From: Brett Sokolow [mailto:]
Sent: Wednesday, February 08, 2017 7:09 PM
To: Kristie M Wyatt <>; Caramagno, Denise <>
Cc: sapc <>
Subject: Re: Mutual No Contact Directives?

 

I understand that, Kristie, but the effect of that could be to discipline a victim/survivor if she violates the no-contact order. Have you found a way around that problematic outcome?

 

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From: Kristie M Wyatt <>
Date: Wednesday, February 8, 2017 at 8:02 PM
To: "Caramagno, Denise" <>
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Subject: Re: Mutual No Contact Directives?

 

At Guilford, a no- contact order is mutual and rather than something one student puts into place against another, it is the ColleCollege deciding that two parties should avoid each other equally. If changes in classes or residence needs to be made, we put the burden on the responding student.

Kristie Wyatt
Wellness Education Coordinator

office: King 128A
phone: 336.316.2879

   

 

On Feb 8, 2017 4:50 PM, "Caramagno, Denise" <> wrote:

Hello All,

I wonder if your institutions issue no contact directives after reports of sexual assault or domestic violence.  If they do are those orders mutual?  I have concerns about no contact orders being issued against students/ survivors who have not been accused of any policy violation.  Your thoughts?


Best,

Denise


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