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["Juliette Grimmett" <>]

I also fully agree with what Molly, Hillary and Kim have said. This is
dangerous and only feeds into peoples own rape myths.  Women have a hard
enough time as it is defining their experiences as rape.

"It's so liberating and important for men to understand that they can
actually be friendly to women instead of playing some gender-specific
role, and that women are in most ways the same as they are. I think that
lots of women already know that, but not so many guys do."  -my dad
8/3/07
 
Juliette Grimmett, MPH
Rape Prevention Education Coordinator
NC State University
Women's Center
3120 Talley Student Center
Campus BOX 7306
Raleigh, NC 27695-7306
Office: (919) 513-3232
24 Hour Sexual Violence Hotline: (919)618-RAPE (7273)
Fax: (919) 515-1066
email: 

website: http://www.ncsu.edu/womens_center
 


>>> Hillary Wing-Richards 
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>>>  11/14/2007 9:40 AM >>>
I agree---extremely offensive and an open invitation for socital victim
blaming

Hillary Wing-Richards

---- Original message ----
>Date: Wed, 14 Nov 2007 09:11:13 -0500
>From: "Molly Dragiewicz" 
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>Subject: RE: Rape vs. "regretted sex"  
>To: 
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>In my experience the person pushing for the use of the term "regretted
sex" is the same dean of students or other administrator who believes
women fabricate rape allegations because they are angry that some guy
doesn't like them  and that violence between male students and their
female partners, friends or exs isn't dangerous. In other words, people
who don't get it and adhere to lots of rape myths. 
>It is extremely offensive. 
>Molly Dragiewicz
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Hillary Wing-Richards, M.A., Ed.S., LPC
Associate Director
Office of Sexual Assault Prevention
and Women's Resource Center
James Madison University
(P) 568-2831
(F) 568-8013

 
www.jmu.edu/assaultprev 

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