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["Juliette Grimmett" <>]

yes!  thank you Abby for your words, particularly what you wrote at the
end.  Is this an ad for these women??  I just found out that my
university brought those women here last year to do a program for the
athletes (i just started in February...).  Also, I am so sick and tired
of "date rape." These are drugs used to facilitate rape, like you said,
there is no date!!  The broadcast is also heterosexist which drives me
totally crazy...

"It's so liberating and important for men to understand that they can
actually be friendly to women instead of playing some gender-specific
role, and that women are in most ways the same as they are. I think that
lots of women already know that, but not so many guys do."  -my dad
8/3/07
 
Juliette Grimmett, MPH
Rape Prevention Education Coordinator
NC State University
Women's Center
3120 Talley Student Center
Campus BOX 7306
Raleigh, NC 27695-7306
Office: (919) 513-3232
24 Hour Sexual Violence Hotline: (919)618-RAPE (7273)
Fax: (919) 515-1066
email: 

website: http://www.ncsu.edu/womens_center
 


>>> "Abby Tassel" 
>>> <>
>>>  9/18/2007 2:05
PM >>>
Hey all-
I just watched this video and think the parts with men who support the
drugging/rapist are useful (terrifying) for trainings but as far as
the
messages for potential victims, it is missing the point in many ways in
my
opinion.  

First, predators are looking for women who are self-intoxicating. So
the
focus on drugging with something other than alcohol as THE danger,
needs to
be clarified with information about the much more likely occurrence of
targeting because of intoxication.  In addition, the recommendation
that
drink test strips/cards be used is downright bad advice...when these
products have been tested they have proven to be useless.  There are
countless drugs that can be used to facilitate sexual assault and even
if
the cards did work, it would only be on a subset of the substances.  To
make
women think they are safe because they have "tested" their drinks is
truly
dangerous.

I am wondering if the whole thing is just an advertisement for the
program
the women are doing.  If their advice is buy test cards and watch your
drink, let's hope no one is really paying them for their
presentations.

Also, when are people going to stop using the term "date rape"? 
Where's the
"date" in some guy drugging and raping a woman he meets at a bar? 

Abby Tassel
Assistant Director
WISE
79 Hanover Street, Suite One
Lebanon, NH   03766
Office:         603.448.5922
Toll Free:    866.348.WISE
Crisis Line:  603.448.5525
TTY: 1.866.889.8647 USERNAME: UpperValleyWISE
Fax:   603.448.2799

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Subject: Dateline: Date Rape Drugs

Hello All,

I found this video clip and thought you may be interested in viewing it
or 
using it for educational purposes.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=2udrpuNxcmM ;


Amanda Childress, M.Ed.
Assistant Director
Department of Health Promotion
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Ohio University
339 Baker University Center
Athens, OH 45701
740.593.4742

 
www.ohio.edu/healthwell 
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