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["Kaplan, Claire N. (cnk2r)" <>]

As a former self-defense instructor, both through the Southern California Rape Hotline Alliance and RAD systems, I am a huge fan of self-defense for women. From what I’ve read about Flip the Script, that’s essentially what it is. Self-defense is useful far beyond defending oneself against a perpetrator. As a self-defense student many years ago, I found what many women do: that they simply feel more empowered in their lives, and develop a much lower tolerance for all offensive, abusive and generally discriminatory insults we have to deal with on a daily basis. Most students in these classes never need to use what they learned to stop an assault; instead they find themselves speaking up more, calling bulls**t for what it is, and so on. Example: after taking my first class, I quit a toxic job. 

As an instructor I witnessed quiet women discover strengths they never knew they had, and develop a sense of personal body rights that they were denied. It was endlessly thrilling.

The key here is that self-defense programs need to be checked out thoroughly by a local feminist agency to ensure that the instructors:

• know how to address triggers and give space to survivors if they wish to share stories or talk about their fears
• are trauma-informed
• allow for extensive discussion about avoiding victim-blaming language and behaviors
• include verbal assertiveness training
• Do not employ scare tactics

Plus, the SD program has women instructors available (even if they aren’t teaching that particular class), and are willing to establish a collaborative relationship local SA/DV agencies. Some local dojos offer self-defense classes but do not have a way to offer the kind of space for conversation/discussion and assertiveness training, etc.  Collaboration with a local SA/DV agency is a great way to do this.

These are just a few pointers. There are other SD instructors on this list, so if anyone has any other suggestions, please chime in.

Good luck!

Claire

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Claire N Kaplan, PhD

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Program Director, Gender Violence and Social Change and Men’s Leadership Project

Maxine Platzer Lynn Women’s Center

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PO Box 800588

Charlottesville VA 22908-0588

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From: <> on behalf of Melissa Babb <>
Reply-To: Melissa Babb <>
Date: Wednesday, June 6, 2018 at 7:51 AM
To: Sara Peters <>
Cc: Sexual Assault Program Coordinators' Listserv <>
Subject: Re: Question regarding Flip the Script prevention education program

I will start by saying that I had not heard of this program until just now, so I don't know everything it covers. One question I'd want to know would be how it addresses tonic immobility and/or if the survivor is incapacitated due to drugs/alcohol or can not resist/fight back for other reasons. 

On Tue, Jun 5, 2018 at 10:13 PM, Peters, Sara <> wrote:

Hi All, 

Some of our Title IX people would like to bring Flip the Script (http://www.uwindsor.ca/sexual-assault/FlipTheScript)  to campus and I have some concerns. It was featured in a NYTimes article  that made everyone here very excited. I would love some feedback if anyone has looked into this program. Best, Sara

Sara K. Peters

Director of Center for Women and Gender Equity
University of Tennessee at Chattanooga

University Center 351A
615 McCallie Avenue
Department 1801
Chattanooga, TN 37403
Phone: 423-425-5605
Fax: 423-425-5649

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