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Dear Ross and John and others,

As you are most likely aware, Safer Society Press is in the process of
publishing Volume I of an ongoing literary anthology of the writings of the
survivors of sexual abuse. Right now, we are sorting through hundreds and
hundreds of submissions (prose and poetry, fiction and non-fiction) from all
over the world, written by men and women, by young and old, by survivors, by
their parents, etc. 

I am anticipating that Volume I will be released in December. If such a
publication would be helpful for  the fathers, I wanted to let you know about
it. The writings openly discuss the impacts of abuse, and will help 
"outsiders"
understand the the experience much more fully.

If you would like to know more about the publication, please write me. I'm 
happy
to answer questions or to assist in getting a copy or copies of this anthology
into your hands.

Kind regards,
Marjorie 


Marjorie Ryerson
Editorial Director
Safer Society Press
P.O Box 340
Brandon, VT 05733
(802) 247-3132

www.safersociety.org 
 

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Sent: Friday, September 11, 2009 3:43 PM
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Subject: RE: books for fathers

Hey y'all,
  There aren't a lot of good books out there for parents of survivors in 
general
- let alone for working with male survivors. There is a pamphlet - I'm not 
sure
if it's in print any longer - called "If he is raped" by Alan W. McEvoy (looks
like you can pick it up on Amazon) - it says it's for parents, too. If the
survivor was assaulted as a child, the Mic Hunter book (Male Survivors of 
Child
Sexual Assault?) and Mike Lew (Victims No Longer) are both good, but I find 
the
latter more accessible and readable. Finally, The Courage to Heal is good for
supporters, I find, though the reader will have to transpose the pronouns to
male as it is written for female survivors of child sexual abuse. That said, I
think there is a lot of great info in there useful for understanding and
supporting survivors of all genders. They also wrote a companion book "allies 
in
healing" - which I never liked as much as the "for survivors" book, which has
some good stuff in it, but is written more for in  timate partners. If y'all
know of some other (more current?) resources, I'd love to hear about 'em!
Peace,
Ross


__________________________________________________________
Ross Wantland
Assistant Director, Office of Inclusion and Intercultural Relations Diversity 
&
Social Justice Education Asian American Cultural Center 1210 W. Nevada St.
Urbana, IL 61801
217-333-0724 (ph)
217-244-4065 (f)
studentaffairs.illinois.edu/diversity (w)


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 On Behalf Of Foubert, John
Sent: Friday, September 11, 2009 2:31 PM
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Subject: [Men Against Violence] books for fathers


SAPC and Men Against Violence Colleagues, Do any of you know about any books 
or
even articles that are geared toward a father whose son was sexually 
assaulted?
John
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John D. Foubert, Ph.D.
Associate Professor and Anderson, Farris, and Halligan Professor Program
Coordinator, College Student Development Master's Degree Program Oklahoma 
State
University School of Educational Studies
314 Willard Hall
Stillwater, OK 74078
(405) 744-1480
(405) 744-7758 fax

http://okstate.academia.edu/JohnFoubert
http://www.okstate.edu/education/ses/edle/csd/csd.html

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