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Gillian

Gillian Greensite
UCSC Rape Prevention Education


On May 26, 2010, at 8:32 AM, 

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> Date: Tue, 25 May 2010 12:45:23 -0400
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> >   1. Best practices for judicial trainings? (Gregory Baker)
> >   2. RE: Best practices for judicial trainings? (McGough, Elizabeth
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> >   3. Re: sexual harassment trainings (Kaplan, Claire (cnk2r))
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> > Date: Mon, 24 May 2010 12:42:04 -0400
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> > Greetings everyone,
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> > We are working on developing a training for our Committee on
> > Discipline, so that they are better prepared to hear sexual violence
> > related cases. I think it has been a few years since sexual violence
> > was a focus in the training curriculum (as the Committee's
> > membership rotates every few years), so we really want to maximize
> > this opportunity.
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> > With my message today, I hope to see if anyone has come across
> > anything useful that might be worth us looking into -- best
> > practices, effective training simulations, noteworthy strategies --
> > anything that can help us to create the best session for the
> > Committee. If you have anything you can share, I would be most
> > grateful if you could send it my way.
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> > Have a great day!
> > Sincerely,
> > -Greg Baker.
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> > Greg Baker
> > Center for Health Promotion & Wellness
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> > Date: Mon, 24 May 2010 13:20:44 -0400
> > From: "McGough, Elizabeth M." 
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> > There have been a few requests for information on what others are
> > doing on various topics.  Can any of you sharing information share
> > it with the whole list?  I know I'd like to see some of this
> > information too.
> > Thanks
> > -Liz
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> > Subject: Best practices for judicial trainings?
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> > Greetings everyone,
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> > We are working on developing a training for our Committee on
> > Discipline, so that they are better prepared to hear sexual violence
> > related cases. I think it has been a few years since sexual violence
> > was a focus in the training curriculum (as the Committee's
> > membership rotates every few years), so we really want to maximize
> > this opportunity.
> >
> > With my message today, I hope to see if anyone has come across
> > anything useful that might be worth us looking into -- best
> > practices, effective training simulations, noteworthy strategies --
> > anything that can help us to create the best session for the
> > Committee. If you have anything you can share, I would be most
> > grateful if you could send it my way.
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> > Have a great day!
> > Sincerely,
> > -Greg Baker.
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> > Date: Mon, 24 May 2010 15:16:18 -0400
> > From: "Kaplan, Claire (cnk2r)" 
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> > Subject: Re: sexual harassment trainings
> > To: Meg Spicer 
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> >  Sexual Assault Program
> >    Coordinators'    Listserv 
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> > Meg, the Equal Opportunity Programs at UVA has a training that was
> > designed for our setting.  I can't say it's the best in the world,
> > but it does cover various issues.  They do a broad-based training on
> > all forms of discriminatory harassment.
> > http://www.virginia.edu/eop/training.html
> >
> > --
> > Claire Kaplan, Ph.D.
> > Director, Sexual and Domestic Violence Services
> > List Manager, SAPC
> > UVA Women's Center
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> > On 5/24/10 11:35 AM, "Meg Spicer" 
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> > I am in the process of advising our HR department on sexual
> > harassment trainings for staff and faculty, and wonder if anyone on
> > the list is aware of good sexual harassment training programs.  I am
> > particularly interested in any which are specific to colleges/
> > universities; I would rather not have one that is directed only
> > toward a business environment, since on college/university campuses
> > there are many more opportunities for harassment to arise (in the
> > classrooms, in dorms...).  I appreciate any thoughts or
> > recommendations you may have.
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> > Meg Spicer
> > Counseling Services
> > Landmark College
> > Putney, VT 05346
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> Date: Tue, 25 May 2010 13:41:59 -0400
> From: Sarah Faith Evans 
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> Subject: Recall: SA/IPV/Stalking Sample Code of Conduct
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> Sarah Faith Evans would like to recall the message, "SA/IPV/ 
> Stalking Sample Code of Conduct".
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> Date: Tue, 25 May 2010 12:11:16 -0500
> From: "Otterson, Lynn" 
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> Subject: RE: SA/IPV/Stalking Sample Code of Conduct
> To: "Sarah Faith Evans" 
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> I would appreciate seeing other codes re: SA and dating violence.  
> Thank you.
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> Lynn Otterson
> Director
> Women's Center, SLB 15
> University of Illinois Springfield
> One University Plaza
> Springfield, IL 62703
> 217.206.7173 tel
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> http://www.facebook.com/pages/UIS-Womens-Center/267199410912
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> -----Original Message-----
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> Sent: Monday, May 24, 2010 10:18 AM
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> Subject: RE: SA/IPV/Stalking Sample Code of Conduct
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> Hello all,
> We are in the same review process here at Stevenson.  I would also  
> appreciate looking at others? Codes re: covering SA and dating  
> violence.
> Many thanks!
> Sarah
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> Sarah F. Evans, M.S., LCPC, NCC
> Professional Counselor, Wellness Center
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> Subject: SA/IPV/Stalking Sample Code of Conduct
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> Committed Advocates,
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> Our college will soon be revising our Code of Student Conduct. I am  
> looking for examples to more fully cover sexual assault, intimate  
> partner violence, and stalking. If you would email me directly, it  
> would be incredibly helpful.
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> Thanks in advance!
>
> Peace,
> Connie
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> Connie Adams, MSW
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> Message: 4
> Date: Wed, 26 May 2010 10:23:00 -0400
> From: "Kaplan, Claire (cnk2r)" 
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> Subject: Judicial Training
> To: Sexual Assault Program Coordinators' Listserv 
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> At UVA we have Brett Sokolow come and train the Sexual Assault  
> Board.  He knows his stuff, and does a very professional training.   
> But he's not cheap, so it would take a bit of a commitment on the  
> part of your institution to bring him in.
> Claire
>
>
> --
> Claire Kaplan, Ph.D.
> Director, Sexual and Domestic Violence Services
> Manager, SAPC Listserv
> UVA Women's Center
> PO Box 800588
> Charlottesville VA 22908-0588
> 434.982.2774
> 434.982.2361
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> Message: 5
> Date: Wed, 26 May 2010 10:58:56 -0400
> From: "Juliette Grimmett" 
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> Subject: Book recommendation for male partner?
> To: 
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> Hello all -
>
> Do you have any recommendations for a book for a male partner whose  
> female partner was recently raped?  He wants to know how to help  
> her as well as manage his own feelings.
>
> Thanks!
>
> Juliette Grimmett
> Assistant Director, NC State University Women's Center
> Interpersonal Violence Services
> 3120 Talley Student Center
> Raleigh, NC 27695
> 919-515-2012
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> Message: 6
> Date: Wed, 26 May 2010 11:32:49 -0400
> From: " 
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>  " 
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> Subject: Re: Judicial Training
> To: " Kaplan, Claire (cnk2r) "        
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>         Sexual Assault Program Coordinators' Listserv "    
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> Thanks.  I am always flexible in trying to work within a client's  
> budget.
>
> Brett A. Sokolow, Esq.
> Managing Partner, NCHERM
> 610.993.0229
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> www.ncherm.org
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> ----- Reply message -----
> From: "Kaplan, Claire (cnk2r)" 
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> Date: Wed, May 26, 2010 10:23 AM
> Subject: Judicial Training
> To: "Sexual Assault Program Coordinators' Listserv"  
> <>
>
> At UVA we have Brett Sokolow come and train the Sexual Assault  
> Board.  He knows his stuff, and does a very professional training.   
> But he's not cheap, so it would take a bit of a commitment on the  
> part of your institution to bring him in.
> Claire
>
>
> --
> Claire Kaplan, Ph.D.
> Director, Sexual and Domestic Violence Services
> Manager, SAPC Listserv
> UVA Women's Center
> PO Box 800588
> Charlottesville VA 22908-0588
> 434.982.2774
> 434.982.2361
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