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Hi, Ms. Johnson!

I haven't developed such a handout, but if anyone has, it'd be the
Technology and Safety program of the National Network to End Domestic
Violence.  The program director is Cindy Southworth.

Hope that helps! 

Until the violence stops, Ben.  
 
Ben Atherton-Zeman, Maynard, MA USA
Actor, Comedian, Feminist and Husband
Presenting a One-Man Play: "Voices of Men," http://www.voicesofmen.org
Booking information: 978-897-3619
 

Quote of the Month, November 2009: 

 

"People say to me, 'if you're against pornography, you're against sex.'
That's like saying that if I'm against McDonald's, I'm against eating."  

-          Gail Dines, from the film "The Price of Pleasure," available at
http://www.thepriceofpleasure.com/ ;

 


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Three that I wrote - that I use in my lectures:


 "sex + booze = rape"
(learn the difference between sex and rape)

 

 
KNOW THAT IT'S "YES" or it's "NO"


YOUR RIGHT TO SWING YOUR FIST ENDS BEFORE IT HITS ME
(same thing goes for your penis)

wendy murphy



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Date: Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:41:26 -0500
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Does anyone have access to data about combined family violence/sexual
assault community agencies compared with separate agencies for family
violence and for sexual assault?  It seems to be a trend in recent years to
combine them, but it would be good to have numbers on how common/uncommon
that is.  thanks.


Christopher Kilmartin, Ph.D.
Professor of Psychology
University of Mary Washington
Fredericksburg, VA 22401
540-654-1562

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Hello All,

I currently facilitate our Family Violence/Sexual Assault Council in our
local community.  Recently our council had a discussion about social
networking site restrictions being included into harassment restraining
orders and orders for protection.  We discussed developing a handout for
advocates to use with victims that would give suggestions of specific
language to consider when assisting victims in writing protective orders.
This language would be generated to address offenders use of social
networking sites such as Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, etc. as a way to
monitor, control and stalk victims.

My question is, has anyone else developed or had experience writing
technology or social networking contact concerns into protective orders?  If
so can you send me any language that may be helpful for our council to adopt
in a handout?

If not, I am wondering if anyone would be interested in working with me
directly to help develop a handout such as this via email.
Please contact me directly if you have any thoughts.

Thank you,

Sheila J. Johnson, LSW
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Sheila J. Johnson, LSW
VAWA Grant Coordinator
SCSU Women's Center
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Date: Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:38:02 -0500
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Hi Everyone!

On Nov. 17, Men Can Stop Rape was featured in a New York Times column
that focuses on accountability for troubled running back Larry Johnson,
who just signed with the Cincinnati Bengals. As some of you might know,
Johnson has been in and out of the news for assaulting four women and
more recently for posting homophobic slurs on Twitter. Check out "In
Johnson's Signing, Talent Prevails"
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/18/sports/football/18rhoden.html?_r=1

Kudos to columnist (and frequent guest on ESPN's "The Sports Reporters")
William C. Rhoden for focusing on this issue. 

Thanks for reading!

Nicole D. Player
Communications Coordinator
Men Can Stop Rape

www.MenCanStopRape.org
Our Facebook Fan Page:
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Men-Can-Stop-Rape/37673225694 ;
Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/MenCanStopRape

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violence?
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Date: Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:20:15 -0800
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Attached, please find the flyer for the upcoming WA Sexual Violence
Prevention College Coalition's Fall Conference.

The first day is focused on professional development on issues of
adjudication of sexual assault cases on campus, technology safety, the WSU
Safety Survey which looks at prevalence on campus, and ends with a sharing
session with partner schools from around the state.

The second day will be a half day focused on the Coalition's ground breaking
statewide implementation of the Green Dot program (currently the most
exciting prevention program in the country).

Questions about payment can be directed to Michelle Pingree at EWU -


Questions about location can be directed to Andrea Easlick at CWU -



Please help us spread the word and I hope to see you there!


-- 
Jonathan Grove
Men Against Violence Program Coordinator
253.538.6304

"We aren't about judging men from wherever they are coming to this
conversation -- lord knows it was only a few short weeks/months/years since
any of us were sitting in very similar places -- really NOT wanting to hear
whatever it is that "those feminists" have to say about these issues. And
yet, here we are."

- Rus Ervin Funk

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