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["Tom Schiff" <>]

I know folks have probably asked this before, but i am curious about the 
scope of what people are doing on their campuses in regard to bystander 
education. I will be happy to collate responses and repost.

Thanks,
Tom Schiff, Ed.D.
Health Education
University Health Services
150 Infirmary Way
University of Massachusetts
Amherst, MA 01003

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Hi, friends!  

When I trained volunteers for a domestic violence hotline, I made a set of 
flash cards that helped them learn about some common statistics about 
domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking etc.  I can't find them, but I 
wondered if others have done this and if those cards could be made available.

One of the things I was helping to train them (and me!) on is not only the 
statistic, but the completely referenced source for the statistic.  With the 
so-called "Father's Rights" movement coming at us with "their" stats that men 
are victims as often as women, I feel a bit more need to know my sources and 
my stats.  And research has never been my strong suit.  

Has anyone else used the "flash card" method?  If so, would you be willing to 
share your cards with others?  Me, in particular?  :)

Until the violence stops, Ben.  

Ben Atherton-Zeman, Acton MA USA
Actor, Comedian, Feminist and Husband
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Quote of the Month, September 2007:

"I am lighting candles for Patreece Johnson,  Renata Hill, Venice Brown,  and 
Terrain Dandridge whose real crime was being black, lesbian, and daring to 
resist the intimidation and sexual harrassment of a lesbophobic male.  I hope 
and pray they are released very soon. 
..Which of us, as women, has not had the experience of being accosted late at 
night, crudely propositioned, harrassed with sexist hate speech?  How many of 
us have been knifed, beaten, shot, raped and murdered at the hands of a man 
in an incident which began just  like this one?  How is it a crime for us to 
be ready to defend ourselves?"
- "Heart," from the Womanspace blog, 
http://womensspace.wordpress.com/author/womensspace/page/2/ "Support the ;
Lesbian 7"