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Although I have not heard of Sandra Brown as a  presenter, I was curious
so went to the website and I too was uncomfortable with how the material
was presented.  Comments like "it walks women through a deep examination
of their patterns with men" and the language in the Dangerous man quiz
focused solely on the woman as the problem.  I thought it pathologized
any woman who may have dated a man who hurt them emotionally or
physically.  When in reality I think the healthiest of women can get
into bad relationships because abusive men can be so good at hiding that
fact and can seem very charming at first.  I do believe that there are
things women  can do to reduce their risk to "dangerous men" but I think
the way that is presented can make all the difference.  I would worry
that someone who may be involved in an abusive relationship would attend
a program such as this and it would reinforce her self-blame and
feelings of worthlessness and feeling embarassed and stupid for being in
such a relationship which would probably only reinforce the same kind of
messages that an abusive partner is already saying.

This was my first reaction when I looked at the website.  I'd be very
interested in other's opinions and thoughts.


Lee LaDue
Assistant Director/Coordinator of Sexual Assault Services
St. Cloud State University Women's Center
720 4th Ave. S.
St. Cloud, MN 56301

Today's Topics:

   1. Has anyone heard of? (Juliette Muellner)


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Has anyone heard of Sandra Brown as a presenter on unhealthy dating
relationships?

LSU is looking to bring her to their campus and they have contacted me
about feedback regarding her.  I have never heard of her and checked out
her website http://www.saferelationships.com ;

and had a funny feeling about it, but I may be off.  Any comments would
be very much appreciated.  Then I can pass it  back to them.

Thank you-

Juliette



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